Once you have booked your registrar, you can begin to personalise your ceremony.

Our registration service prides itself on the quality of the ceremonies we deliver and our registrars use a tried and trusted format to ensure your ceremony runs smoothly. For marriages, some words must be included by law but you can choose to personalise some parts of your marriage or civil partnership ceremony if you wish.

Your wedding ceremony is the perfect opportunity to personalise your whole day from the start and reflect your personalities and your relationship. This guide is designed to help you create your ceremony step by step, you can say as much or as little as you want during the ceremony. We have included suggested choices for additional words but we also welcome personal touches into the ceremony in your music, readings, vows and promises.

Music

We suggest you choose 5 songs to play as your guests arrive, one for as you make your entrance into the ceremony room, 2 or 3 for as you are signing the register and a final song as you make your exit as newlyweds. For ceremonies at licenced venues you will need to arrange your music with them directly, in our registration offices you can provide your music on a CD or connect to our speakers via Bluetooth.

Readings

You can choose something that fits your personalities, perhaps a piece by your favourite author or poet, you could even write your own. You can use this opportunity to include a friend or relative in your ceremony to present your reading, alternatively, the registrar will be happy to read it for you. Please make sure your readers have a copy of their words on the day.

As you are having a civil ceremony your music, readings, personal vows and promises cannot be of a religious nature. Please contact us at ceremonies@northyorks.gov.uk if you are unsure if your music or reading can be included, our Ceremonies Team will be happy to help you.

Changes can be made at any time up to 4 weeks prior to your ceremony but after that time the script will be printed ready for your big day. Any changes after that time will not be recognised. You don’t need to change anything in the registrars words sections, we’ve just included this for your information.