Over 400 children supported into loving homes through fostering
For two decades, Sarah and Tim Sharp have opened their home and their hearts to children and young people who need love, stability and care.
The retired North Yorkshire couple’s fostering journey began later in life after they became parents to their daughter, Lydia, at the age of 42.
Wanting to grow their family but feeling adoption was not the right path for them, they turned to fostering - a decision that has shaped the lives of dozens of young people and their own ever since.
To date, the Sharps, who live in Bedale, have fostered up to 30 children and have experienced an “incredible variety of moments”.
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As Foster Care Fortnight approaches next month when the national annual awareness event will run from Monday 11 May to Sunday 24 May, they are now hoping to inspire others to step forward and make a difference too.
In their first 10 years, they cared for many different children and have seen the fostering system evolve.
Sarah said: “When we first started fostering, children often came into care because parents couldn’t cope, whereas now the service works hard to keep children safely cared for with their families before making a decision to bring children into care.
“We have really noticed how the support has strengthened over the years too. Social workers are far more focused on providing guidance, helping us understand children’s needs and being there when we need advice.”
Our executive member for children and families, Cllr Janet Sanderson, said: “Sarah and Tim Sharp embody everything that is remarkable about our fostering community.
“For 20 years they have given children not just a safe home, but love, stability and the chance to thrive. This has created memories and an incredible variety of moments for the children to remember.”
Over the past 20 years, the couple have learned to deal with challenges much better than when they started.
Tim said: “If you think you can provide a safe, comfortable, loving household for a child, you’ll gain a lot from it. It is hard work. There’ll be situations you aren’t sure about but make sure to use the support you can get. You are the voice for that child. If you or they are not happy with anything, you can be their campaigner, you can help them.
“Ask if you need help because that’s what Fostering North Yorkshire is there for. Get as much support as you need and enjoy it!”